My problem, is how I should approach girls? Should I do it by myself or with friends? If I have my friends near me, I feel more comfortable talking to the girls and not feeling awkward. But at the same time I feel I'll more embarrassed if they let me down. The girls are usually a little bit on that "who's this fool?" state of mind in my opinion.
The other was is I can approach them by myself. I won't be so comfortable and might come off wrong. The girls might see me as more of a loner, or not as fun of a guy. But they probably would see me as more sincere etc. What’s the best way?
Eros says-
The problem guys run into is they have to act cool in front of their friends when approaching girls. Acting cool means you would talk to the girl in a different way than you would alone. Make sure you are nice to the girl even if your friends are with you. I would do this; let the girl see you with your friends (to see that you are not a loner) then break away from your friends and go talk to her alone. This will work out great because she will see you with friends and also you will have confidence since you were just around all your friends. Also remember when a guy has strong self confidence he does not need friends around to talk to a woman. He knows and trusts his abilities and is prepared to approach and talk to a beautiful woman.
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