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I think she is cheating on me |
Hey Eros I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year but now everything has changed. Now she does not want to spend as much time with me and always has excuses for not meeting me. We use to be together all the time but something is just different now..whats up???
Chris
Lubbock,TX
Yes Chris something is different. Odds are your girlfriend is cheating on you. Your girlfriend is nice so she does not want to tell you beacuse she knows it will just break your heart. You have 3 options at this point in the relationship
1. You could follow her or hire someone to follow her and see her actions for youself.
2. You could break up with her and try to save face.
3. The best option maybe to stay with her as long as you can for the sex. Lose all your emotions for her and just get the sex while you can. If you are mean you can film your sexual acts and put it on the internet, but remember Karma "whatever harm you cause someone else will come back to you"
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Guys always think they are doing the right thing then they wonder why girls always want to be their friend instead of girlfriend. At some point you will get tired of every girl saying "lets just be friends". You have to make a change in your life; you have to become the man that every woman wants. Lovena is here to help. Here is Lovenas list of common mistakes guys make.
1. Moving To Slow-This is a mistake made by guys that are trying to be to sensitive. You move to slow and another guy comes into her life and takes her away. The girl probably likes you but by the time you make a move its to late. You will become the guy she talks to about the other guys she dates. You have to know what you want in life and go for it. If you want the girl you must tell her. It's better to get rejected than to wonder your whole life what could have been.
2. Not Making Decisions-If you are one of these guys that can never make up his mind then you must make a change. Women want a guy that can make decisions and be enthusiastic about them. A woman will ask you a question for a reason; she is not asking you "where should we go tonight" just so you can respond with "I don't know". The woman is asking you because she expects you to be a real man and make a decision. This goes back to an earlier point I made of knowing what you want and going for it. If you don't know what you want than who will, your mom? If you need a woman to make decisions for you then ask her for your balls back and start living you life.
3.Desperation-Nothing turns off a woman more that a desperate man. Of course you may be desperate but you can not let the girl notice this. A woman does not want a desperate man she wants a male that resembles the "Alpha Male". The alpha male is very strong and self confident. I am not saying to be so self confident that you become cocky. True self confidence means you treat people with respect and you know what you want in life. The women will notice your self confidence and notice how you treat people.
4. Becoming Friends First-If you really like a girl their is no reason you should become her friend first. Ask the girl out then if she says no you can become her friend. Why would you want to get stuck in the friend zone trap? It's easier to ask her out before you become friends. Once you become friends the girl will say things like this "Dating you will ruin of friendship" or "sleeping together will ruin of friendship". After you hear these words you may never get the chance to date the girl. Go for what you want early and think about it later.
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